Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Thank you, Wendy!



Wendy Barlow is one of the craftiest and most talented women I know. As a baby shower gift, she taught me to sew 2 dresses for my baby girl. They turned out so beautiful, I can't wait to try them on my Little Miss!

This one was got this affair all started. She had made a dress just like this for a little girl at church. I kept complimenting her on what an adorable dress it was.


Here is her blessing dress. It's extra long, white and beautiful! I tried to get a close-up of the fabric detail at the bottom but the photos just don't do it justice. Feel free to stop by and see it in person!

Grateful

So it's officially "Go" time at our house. Danny was in Texas for 10 whole days while I stayed at home and tried to not go into labor. My efforts were a success thanks to the wonderful friends and neighbors who kept me busy, kept me company and kept me from getting too stressed. Danny got home last night so we're open for this crazy baby business! I'm 36 weeks and 4 days so it could be any time from now until August.

Commence Freak-Out Moment...

Can you say YIKES?! Who gave me a license to be a mom? Are they really going to let me bring her home? What if I stink at it this mommy business? Who's picking up the tab (I hear kids are pricey these days)? When will I get that magical maternal instinct that provides all of the answers to my questions? If anyone out there can help me out with that whole "prepared" business I'd greatly appreciate it.

On the whole, this has been one interesting summer. We kicked it off with an inland hurricane that tore our town apart over graduation weekend while our parents were in town (hope you kids had fun! Ya'll hurry back now!). We lost power for 6 days and camped inside our own house and helped people clear out all of the trees that fell down. Next began the real fun of working like crazy to save up money for all kinds of expenses. Danny has been working on his teaching certification and completing application after application only to learn that most principals take their vacation now through mid-July and won't start interviewing for a few weeks. The suspense is killing us! All the while we've been trying to sell our home. It's hard to show it when we still live in it and it's especially hard to keep it all neat and tidy when we keep accumulating more and more baby gear in preparation for the arrival of our Little Missy.

So "When are you moving?" you might ask. Or "Where are you moving to?" These are excellent questions and I'd love to narrow it down for you but this is the best I've got: We're moving to a currently undisclosed location in Texas because that is where Danny will be certified to teach and we'll be closer to our families. The location will be determined upon securing employment. As for the "when," that also depends on where Danny finds a job and how soon he needs to be there, how soon we sell our house, and whether or not I'm still a blubbering mess of a new mom at that point.

Here is where my cynicism starts to taper off:

-In the middle of the month my doctor put me off work to help reduce my stress level. I was pretty stunned because I had planned to work up until I popped. But since I got myself so wound up at the beginning of June and threw myself into a bit of preterm labor, it really was a great call. We were blessed that very same week when Danny found a summer job that pays him comparable to I was making and they're letting him work as much as he can before the TBD moving date. I've also been able to do a bit of work from home on a very lax schedule which helps me to feel productive without getting stressed.

-I was completely panicked about being home by myself for 10 days in case this baby tried to make another early appearance while Danny was gone, but my wonderful friend Bri postponed her vacation until Danny came back just to help keep my head on my shoulders. (She might claim that she had things to do and finish up anyway before they left but don't buy it, she's a saint!)

-I was worried about getting our house in proper order to catch a buyer's attention but I'm not supposed to do a lot of heavy lifting and strenuous work, especially in triple-digit heat. About 2 weeks ago I caught my friend and neighbor, Cathy, pulling weeds out of my flower beds and watched as she overhauled and transformed our garden to add more curb appeal to the house. I'm serious, she weeded, mulched, planted vegetables in the back and kept a close eye on me while Danny was out of town just because she's a wonderful person and she said she wanted to. Yet another saint.

-We just found out that we have extensive hail damage from that inland hurricane I mentioned before. But I found a contractor who gave us a fair price and it looks like our insurance will cover our roof replacement! What a double blessing because not only does it cover the majority of the expenses, but a new roof will up our home value. Yay!

I don't know how I can ever freak-out over all the things on our plate when we are being so blessed and cared for at the same time. We'll just have to keep working and trying to do our best on this road that we felt prompted to follow and take time to look and see the Lord's hand in all of it. It's so easy for me to not notice His work when the answers to my prayers don't come in a neatly wrapped package that falls in my lap. I think I appreciate His blessings more when they show up just before I throw in the towel.

So that's the story for all of you who have been wondering what we're up to, what our plans are and how we're doing. Despite our uncertain future, we're very blessed and doing Great!

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Consider me "Showered"

Yesterday some wonderful, thoughtful and kind women from our ward got together and threw a joint baby shower for me and Katy Davis. It was so sweet and we got so many useful things, including tons of blankets, clothes, diapers, baby toiletries, etc. I especially loved the handmade things I got like the purple crocheted mary jane shoes, the pink crocheted baby blanket, and a blue and green flowery dress (that one came with a coupon for a lesson in how to make more of those dresses!)

The women in my ward are so wonderful and came to support both Katy and me. I love everything we got so much, I had to make a post just to show off all of the loot I've accumulated so far.







Another favorite part of the shower: Danny went and bought something for Little Miss because he felt like he needed to buy a gift too. He totally made my day on Friday when I was tired and grumpy about work and he pulled out a tiny, pink "Southern Illinois" T-shirt that he thought of and picked out all by himself. I can't wait until Little Miss makes her appearance and I get to dress her up in her cute clothes!

Special thanks to Hannah Katie New and Bri Scott for putting on the shower. Bri Scott and her family have been our super-fun best friends out here. We're going to miss them so much when we eventually move out of Illinois. They're so good to us!

Domesticity

I've had a lot of fun baking lately. Just before Easter, I got a hold of the most adorable cupcake cook book and taught myself to make these super cute butterflies out of chocolate:



Sadly, I haven't been able to duplicate the cuteness since then, but I like to think that I'll have time to do so after school is done in two weeks.

Danny works for the Daily Egyptian this semester and they formed a Relay For Life team for the fundraiser this weekend. They held a bake sale to raise money for their team so I made some fun treats to sell, too.

Homemade Oreos:


Yellow Cupcakes with Rum-Flavored Icing and Daily Egyptian/SIU-inspired chocolate toothpicks:




Truffle-Filled, Ganache-Covered White Cupcakes
(not pictured, too delicious)

I have to say that I think my favorite part of making treats isn't really seeing people enjoy them, though I do LOVE it when people like my creations. My favorite part is how proud Danny is of me and how much he loves to show me off. He always makes me feel so loved and special, no matter what I do. He acts like I'm the greatest wife in the entire world and I never get tired of it. He's the best!

I Ain't No Hauli White Girl

Ok, so the headline for the post is a lot more fun if you say it to the tune of "Holla Back Girl."

As some of you may know, Danny and I are both 1/8th Hawaiian and we wear that fraction with pride. While participating in the Saluki's Healthiest Loser contest at school, Danny made friends with his personal trainer named Jeff who was also from Hawaii. They enjoyed talking about various Hawaiian delicacies. One such delicacy was a favorite in my home and can be purchased at gas stations and McDonald's locations throughout Polynesia. The fabulous dish I'm referring to is none other than the fabulous
SPAM MUSUBI

For Danny's final weigh-in for the contest, I made a small batch of Spam Musubis to send to Jeff. I also picked up a bunch of Lychee Jellies which brought back fond memories of my youth.



I hope I made my Tutu proud, but the Spam has been hurting my belly to can't seem to finish off the left-overs.

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Texas, Dirt, Bellies and Fish Goo

Ok, here is a VERY quick wrap up of the month of March:

TEXAS
We went to San Antonio, Texas to see Kendee and Aimee and company and for Danny to job hunt in Austin.
*We got in on Saturday, went to Sea World, ate more food than I thought humanly possible and went to bed.
*Sunday, we went to church then Danny and I agreed to babysit ALL 6 CHILDREN while Steve & Kendee and Lance & Aimee broke the sabbath to see the Suns play the Spurs. We balanced all the children AND made a fabulous birthday cake for Kendee (Happy 29th!) and even cleaned up after ourselves...bring on parenthood!....one at a time please....

*Monday we drove to Austin for a little resume dispensing. Afterward we went to a delicious Indian buffet where a 4 year old girl told me I looked like Hannah Montana (that's the last time I let Kendee dress me and do my hair "like Jennifer Aniston").
*Tuesday Danny drove back to Austin for a last minute interview and I chilled with Kendee, then we hit the San Antonio river walk for some good times and more grub.
*Wednesday we hit the zoo, grabbed some lunch and caught our flight home. So much fun, thanks for having us guys!

GARDENING
We invested an entire Saturday (and a lot of money) into our garden. We planted lots of flowers in front and vegetables in back and my kitchen window is full of peat pots waiting for our sprouts to come up. I gardened for 8 hours straight! Needless to say I was extremely sore. Danny babied me and bought me ice cream.

BABY BUMP
It's a Girl! We're so excited! She may be small but she kicks me all the time and Danny is finally able to feel her kicking too. So I'm presently 23 weeks along and my bump isn't much to look at but I'm still excited its there! We went down to the campus to take pictures of our friends' daughter and decided to grab a few profile pictures for our families who aren't here to see me "blossoming" with a child.
I threw in a picture of the dog. He looked somewhat adorable with his new haircut and lets face it, he'll be getting even less attention in a few months' time.


MOVIE MADNESS
Let the record show that on Friday, March 27th, Daniel Kaleo'okalani Wenger agreed to watch Twilight with his wife with fairly minimal negotiation. He LOVED every minute of it....

Danny's Boy Scout Canoe Adventure
(Technically, this amounts to more gardening)

You can see videos of these crazy Asian Carp here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PdcQ56OpxNE

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Oh right, we have a blog.

Hello all. I know you've all been dying for information on our ever exciting life, and yet we never update this handy-dandy blog. Go figure.
So to satiate all of our die-hard fans, here's what's been going on for the past few months.
As previously stated, we learned that Jacquee was pregnant, both a startling and exciting bit of news. Food became Jacquee's enemy during the cold months of December and January and many a cold meal and sandwich were eaten because cooking was outlawed. Pregnancy, you see, amplified Jacquee's nose to bloodhound level and the slightest aroma of anything being prepared in the oven or on the stove, even things being stored in the refrigerator, pushed Jacquee's stomach into the land of nausea.
Christmas came quietly and without fanfare. We did go for a short hike with our friends the Scott's through Giant City Park, a nearby state park, because the weather was favorable. A few days after Christmas Jacquee's parents came into town, ourselves being the last stop on the list of kids to visit. They hung out for a few days and Mike helped fill the hole in the master bedroom ceiling get filled with a ceiling lamp.
You see, more than a year prior we had purchased a ceiling fan to replace the one that had been above our bed because the blades broke. After allowing the new fan to ripen in it's box for some six months in our office, we decided to install it, only to discover the base plate to which the old fan was mounted was not the correct size for the new fan. So some painter's tape and a plastic bag went over the hole, creating a small lung directly above where we slept that would inhale and exhale when the door opened or the ac kicked on.
So after an unspecified length of time with the bag the new fan was finally installed with the help of Mike and Aaron Scott. The star of the show was Aaron's super fancy ladder that unfolded to form a bridge to stand and work on. It was impressive.
We spent New Years chaperoning a youth activity held at our chapel. The youth had a good time, which is what was important. For the adults, it wasn't anything special, but it beat our other plans of going to bed early.
In January school started back up for both members of the Wenger Clan. Before shool started Danny went of a camp out to test out the new backpack and camping wear he had gotten as an early birthday present. During a campout known for being notoriously cold, Danny kept warm in his new coat and socks. Then school started.
Jacquee has two classes two nights a week and two more online courses. Danny is pulling 18 hours in the last leg of school before graduation in May. He also works 29 hours a week between designing pages at the Daily Egyptian and doing his research assistantship. He has been doing an independent photojournalism class and is getting quite handy with a camera.
Jacquee has had an interesting challenge in her ethics course this semester, which deserves its own post. Besides that she is doing great as always.
On Valentine's day Danny scored "Best Husband Award" for the third consecutive year by buying Jacquee a pound of chocolate ganache in dipping form and some fresh strawberries.
Danny also was accepted into a new program at the Student Recreation center called Saluki's Healthiest Loser. It's like the Biggest Loser in the sense that it is a weight loss competition, but not as dramatic and more focused on lifestyle change than winning. He get's to meet with a personal trainer three days a week and go to a nutritionist. He's stoked about losing weight to pursue his aspirations to be the shirtless model you always see in cologne ads.
Jacquee is happy about her stomach calming and the return of cooked meals. In fact, we recently gorged ourselves like wolverines at 17th Street Bar and Grill, the nations best barbecue according to Food Network.
The upcoming plans are travel to Texas to visit family for Spring Break in the second week of march and try to find a job in Austin. Also we find out the gender of our child that same week. Hooray for us.
That's all for now. Sorry no pictures. Instead, this hilarious video.

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Saturday, December 20, 2008

Ohhh Baby!

So for anyone who is not aware... WE'RE PREGNANT! I'm so excited and soooo sick that I really haven't gotten around to blogging about it yet. You'd think that sitting at the computer and typing about my nausea wouldn't be such a big deal, possibly even theraputic, right? Well the truth is that I'm a whimp. Much more than I realized until now. EVERYTHING is very overwhelming to me and I just want to crawl in bed a be pampered all the time. Don't worry, Danny LOVES to shower me with love and attention.

So we had planned to tell our families for Christmas since we're too poor to send everyone gifts and they'd all be pretty excited. But we found out a week or two before Thanksgiving I begged Danny to let me tell early so that I could have more people to whine and complain to. Plus that was the only way I could explain that we wouldn't be joining my family in Texas for Christmas (14 hours in a car on top of never ending nausea? shoot me now).

This is what they received:






Since then I got to get an early ultrasound to see our little peanut. I'm nine weeks today, but we got the images when I was eight weeks and two days. Oh, and in case you're wondering why I don't have one of those little 3D updating fetus images on the side of the blog, you can thank Danny for that. He totally vetoed it! He claims they're freaky looking and made me promise not to put one up. Anyway, here's our little baby!






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